Updated 297 Days ago

Shedding a collective tear

Did I mention I'm new to town?  Tonight my wife, son, and I sat down to dinner about 7.  There was a noise...a siren.  A police car sped past.  Then another...a third.  They just kept coming.  Three bites into dinner there had been ten. Not long after there were fifteen.   Then twenty.   Soon helicopters droned overhead.

As you may have guessed, our new St. Louis area home isn't far from Kirkwood Road.  We chose it as our home for a number of reasons, one being the fact that it seemed like a place with a real sense of community.  Tonight our new community is shedding a collective tear. 

I haven't been here long enough to have met the mayor, or, quite frankly, to know who my councilperson is.  It's somewhat unsettling to sit here knowing my councilperson may not be alive.  It's heartbreaking to think of the degree of separation....maybe one...maybe two, between folks who've lived here for several years, and the faces of the dead who'll soon be splashed across the front page of the paper.  

I also haven't been here long enough to know the face of Charles "Cookie" Thornton.  Thornton, apparently, had a reputation for being the town "nut."  He was that guy who showed up at every city council meeting and raised hell until he was kicked out.  I used to work in news, and you knew the faces of people like this.  Sometimes the regulars at such meetings snickered.  Maybe they pointed.  Maybe they laughed.  Rarely, however, do they take the "Cookie" Thornton's of the world very seriously. 

On this night, failing to take this guy seriously may have cost five people their lives.  It's caused countless hearts to break.  It also has likely cost this idyllic community another sliver of its innocence.  Metal detectors will likely be set up at the next public meeting.  The few people left who don't lock their doors will probably re-think their habits.  And everyone will look with a great deal of suspicion on those who had previously just been considered a bit weird or a bit crazy.

This will, by no means, be the end of Kirkwood as we know it.  Communities across our nation have endured similar tragedies and persevered.  When spring arrives, people will still sit on their porches at night, and stroll into town on breezy afternoons.  They'll just do it with the recollection of absent faces and the memory of sirens interrupting dinner. 





  • Annie Staff 297 Days ago
    George, You should be very proud to live in Kirkwood - a community with a big heart and one that will continue to rise above tragedy. Welcome to St. Louis. You're going to love it here!
  • Kathleen 297 Days ago
    Hi George....yes, you and your family will enjoy Kirkwood and you will fall in love with the Kirkwood Police Officers and the entire City Staff just as I have........I am an employee of Kirkwood and work at City Hall. It is truly unfortunate the tragic events that have happened in Kirkwood the last few years, but we will all pull together as a family and we will overcome this nightmare. We have fantastic residents that will also help us get through. Please keep us all in your prayers and we thank everyone for praying and all the support the community is showing us. Thank you also to all the law enforcement agencies that responded so quickly to help our City in need. Also to their officers whom were off duty and volunteered their time to help. You guys are awesome!! And to two of Kirkwood's finest officers....I'll miss you Bill and Tom-you guys were the greatest!

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